It’s messed up how if a man wants a partner who is caring and supportive people say it’s a “mommy kink” “you just want your mommy”
As if it’s not a basic need to want a safe and caring relationship. I want that and I would like to be that for my partner.
It’s another way that denies men to be vulnerable and honest about their feelings. In society men are supposed to be confident and in control all the time. so if men show any signs of wanting safety and love it is ridiculed and demeaning.